Thursday, July 23, 2009

Female Guide to Romantic Flirting

Women often become incomprehensibly nervous around attractive man. Some women get meltingly insecure with guys, just for fear of being rejected. The problem with anxious women is they constantly keep monitoring their own behaviour. Men overlook hesitant women over extrovert and noisy ones asf acing different social situations they can't even make small talk effectively. Hence men tend to overlook hesitant women over extrovert and noisy one. Fear of standing up and attracting male’s attention make them so incomprehensibly nervous that she freezes up. So how do you learn to relax around men?


Examine this list and see if you think you have all the essential skills:

1. Would you prefer a friend or someone who makes you interesting company?

2. Would you take the first move to acquaint a man – how would you attract attention?

3. Prepare for rejection but don’t look forward to it.


Would you prefer friend or someone who makes you interesting company?

Women get stuck on the idea to look for men who challenges her instead of a man who could become her soul mate. A man who could be a best friend and not someone who makes her interesting company.

In short, someone whose company she’d enjoy. You should know there are a lot of men around who hesitate to approach women because of their inherited shyness or wimpy-ness.

Would you take the first move to acquaint a man?

Lot of women think of themselves as shy. Sadly women underestimate their own ability to interact socially with men, and usually overestimate everyone else's ability. So when you're watching other people and wishing you could make friends the way they do, they might very well be thinking the same about you! Most of the time the problem is who takes the first move to initiate friendship.

Prepare for rejection but don’t look forward to it

Hesitance to initiate social contacts often comes from thought that the rejection would make you insecure. However it's really not that bad. Just don't anticipate that you will be rejected. If that happens, don't convince yourself that if you are it is over for you. You need to take many steps to succeed in dating a man. Start by asking a guy out and see what it is like.

Initiate talk about common interests with women

You should find your way to initiate talk about common interests with men. It helps if you start flirting and courting before you decide that particular man is the only man in the world for you.

How do you get along with a man – identify shared character qualities

Women usually have no problem socialising on a friendly level, but find it very hard to approach a man about anything more. That’s mostly true if you’re single for a long time and it became near impossible to meet a men who is complete stranger. However your daily job and activities place you among single men. So you have to find out how to come within reach of them and present yourself as a girl worth to be with.

Do you have what takes to meet single man? How do you create a centre of attention of yourself?

Examine this list and see if you think you have all the essential skills:

1. Take courageousness to come up to men and start talking

2. Know to get along with a man – identify shared character qualities

3. Get acquainted with a man and let him show his temperament

Take courageousness to come up to men and start talking

Common problem with relationships starts when you see a man that appeals to you and it takes courageousness to come up to him and start talking. The next to unworkable task seems to be to imagine of things to say. The universal tips are to talk about insignificant things. It happens that when your list of things to say runs out, you get more nervous than during the rest of the conversation.

How do you get along with a man – identify shared character qualities

Some women get frightened of bonding with a man early in favour of fear of getting in the unknown: If you are going to talk with a guy, there will always be surprises: certain character-traits, deep intimate secrets or lack of conversation skills, which might appear as meaningless to men. You might panic that it clashes with your life feelings, and therefore you'd rather not risk finding out. Some women also experience fear of not knowing what to do if you finally get to date a guy.

Get acquainted with a man and let him show his temperament

Doubts are normal for things you haven't done before. You’ll never know real qualities of a man until you commit a time to getting acquainted with him. In the beginning of relationship men would praise your accomplishments, ambition, and strong will to move things and socialize. However, self-confidence is an attractive quality in itself. You must be yourself when dealing with the opposite sex, otherwise that will very likely result in sad relationship-ending situation.

Get rid of nervous tension in dating circumstances. Starting to talk to a man comes as an unattainable task for some women. Women would usually think of their conversation skills as pointless and at very superficial drivel. Women hesitate to approach men for fear of appearing dull. Some women would usually know the topic, they should be chatting up but they get perplexingly nervous. Instead of acting that freezes them up.

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2 comments:

  1. i get tongue-tied talking to gorgeous men... i'd rather stare than speak, hehe

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  2. Uhm, my hands sweat when the guy I fancy is just around the corner.

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